Thursday, June 28, 2012

20 DIFFERENCES BETWEEN A LEADER AND A RULER



1.    A leader is people-oriented; a ruler is program-oriented.
2.    A leader derives pleasure in enriching others; a ruler derives pleasure in enriching self.
3.    A leader is others-conscious. That is, he does projects to make life better for others. A ruler is self-conscious. He does projects that boosts only his ego.
4.    A leader uses critics to appraise and improve himself. A ruler fights critics and prefers the company and idle comments of sycophants.
5.    A leader is an active listener. A ruler is more of an active talker.
6.    A leader does more than he talks. A ruler talks more than he acts.
7.    A leader dialogues. A ruler negotiates.
8.    A leader is secured: he allows others to showcase their gifts and talents. A ruler is insecure: he is always threatened that others may outsmart him.
9.    A leader is faithful and predictable. A ruler is ‘face-ful’ (given to eye service) and unpredictable.
10. A leader is a pacesetter. A ruler is a pain-setter.
11. A leader motivates. A ruler demotivates.
12. A leader is a model and mentor. A ruler is traitor.
13. A leader is a man of vision. A ruler is a man of confusion.
14. Under a leader, the people glory and prosper. With a ruler, the people groan and perish.
15. A leader trusts in God. A ruler trusts his ‘gods’.
16. A leader upholds core moral values. A ruler despises moral values.
17. A leader is firm and flexible. A ruler is stubborn and inflexible.
18. A leader values education. A ruler values only money.
19. A leader leaves good impressions. A ruler makes great oppressions.
20. A leader heads the team. A ruler is a figure-head.

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Wednesday, June 20, 2012

The 4 Keys of Greatness



Greatness is one of man’s topmost aspirations. This may mean different words to different people. Some call it success, prosperity, influence, fame etc. All of mankind wants to be free and independent, doing what he wants, how he wants it, and whenever he wants it. But entering into this sphere of experience doesn’t just happen like that. It takes an unbreakable and unbendable universal process, which guarantees that one will become a high flyer whether he lives in the desert or in the city.

This process is outlined below:

1.    Investigate
This is one very vital thing that all successful men do. They investigate the natural laws that guide and sustain whatever it is they are about to do. Whatever it is you want to do or become, someone somewhere has done it before. It therefore makes so much sense to find out how he did. This will save you so much time and other resources.

Great men have always discovered great principles in one or a combination of three ways:
a.   Experimentation
This is a trial-and-error, or better put, trial-and-success system. They keep trying and recording their findings till they arrive at their desired result. Building on their findings will save you much time, energy, and even money and other resources. The Wright Brothers didn’t start building the airplane from the scratch. They simply leveraged on the findings of those before them.
b.   Speculation
This involves a careful observation and juxtaposition of facts and realities; studying trends, and noting what works and what doesn’t. Using findings of speculation will save you so much mental exertion and physical energy.
c.    Intuition
Some of these laws were also ‘caught’ in the moments of reflection and meditation. Thomas Edison once said, “I thought of the problem long enough and the solution jumped at me”. That’s the outcome of an intuitive process. You can leverage on your intuition too. The Bible says, “There is a spirit in man; the inspiration of the Almighty that gives him understanding.”

NOTE: If you are not satisfied, you may want to follow through these processes yourself, starting from the scratch. However, this will only be your undoing. You can tap into the wealth of resources such as books, articles, tapes etc. that these great minds have given to the benefit of humanity. Isaac Newton understood this when he said: “If I have been able to see farther than others, it must be because I’ve been standing on the shoulders of giants.” On whose shoulders are you standing? Who is or would be standing on your shoulders tomorrow?

2.    Imbibe
This is a deliberate effort at internalizing and personalizing those laws and principles that you’ve found out. Don’t only allow them to remain in your head, let them also infiltrate your heart. For example, don’t say ‘They are Mandela’s Philosophy of Life.’ Rather, extract the principles from the life of Mandela and conduct yourself accordingly. Let the principles sink deep into your subconscious. That’s the only way they can work for you.

3.    Implement
When information enters your heart, let them also find expression through your actions. Action is the key. (Refer to my article on The 10 Benefits of Action). No one is ever celebrated for the information he knows, or how good his intentions are. Rather, people are celebrated for what they have done – Action!

Dr Myles Munroe once said that the wealthiest place is the graveyard. This is because it has buried in it books that were never written; songs that were never composed nor sung; plays that were never acted; places that were never visited; potentials that were never discovered; purposes that were never realized.

What brings about greatness is neither the accumulation nor documentation of information, but the right application of information. We must apply ourselves to the truths contained in the information that we know or have to become successful in your chosen field of endeavor.

Don’t just imbibe, implement!

4.    Impart
Truly successful people don’t allow what they know, and have applied, and have worked for them to remain and die with them. They always find a way of replicating them in others. They are always keen in passing them on. They find a group of people to mentor. They document the laws that have worked for them; they ensure that future generations are not denied of these truths. Many of them have become our celebrated heroes today: Wesley Duewel, Martin Luther, John Wesley, Winston Churchill, John F. Kennedy, Nelson Mandela, Mohandas K. Gandhi… Oh! An endless list! They all lived successful lives in the face of stiff oppositions, fighting and some, dying for the cause in which they believed.

True greatness lies in living each day in the consciousness of making life better for others. Life is measured not in the duration, but in the donation. According to Thomas A. Pine: “What we do for ourselves alone dies with us. What we do for others lives and is eternal.”

What would you be remembered for?

You can be that purposeful, powerful and productive person God made you to be.

Yes, you can!

I believe in you.

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THE POWER OF ACTION


10 Benefits of Action
1.            It is a proof that you believe God for what you expect.
2.            It is the test of the viability of your expectation or vision. No matter how great it looks on paper, it would never amount to anything without action.
3.            You learn more. The more you act, the more you know.
4.            It opens up to you the door of impact. As you take action, you’d be solving people’s problems, which makes you to have positive impact and relevance.
5.            It opens you to recognition and recommendations.
6.            You will make God happy, which will in turn make Him commit to you more responsibilities.
7.            It is the key to having your needs met. The people you help will eventually help you, or pay you for the services you render.
8.            It gives you a sense of satisfaction, because you find out you’re doing what you really want or love to do.
9.            You will experience the joy of achievement. There is great joy in setting goals and achieving them.
10.         You will gain influence, and can help more people to know God and their purposes in life.

Whatever it is you have to do, the best time to do it is now. Don’t get to tomorrow and let the pain of regret haunt you for the things you could do today but refused to do. Whatever you have to do, DO IT NOW. I am standing with you in faith, and I know that you will come out successful.

You can be that purposeful, powerful and productive person God made you to be.

Yes, you can!

I believe in you.

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